I want to ask a girl out (Read 5378 times)

Miner_man123456 · « **Reply #1 on:** 24 Jun 2012, 12:43:53 »

I have had this problem myself a couple of times and the best way to do it is just take your time and get to know her before asking her out, maybe invite her over to your house a couple of times to hang out like friends don't go up to a girl after you have spoken to her once or twice.

If she likes you back then you will most likely get a date but if she don't then you need to respect that and move on :)

Hope This Helped You A Little And Good Luck! ;)

UberOwner56 · « **Reply #2 on:** 27 Jun 2012, 03:59:48 »

Like Miner said, get to know more about her and wait a while until she seems to talk to you a
little more mabey

Also like Miner said I hope this helped you alittle for as it did for me (but she asked me out.........over a text message

)

Gdp203 · « **Reply #3 on:** 27 Jun 2012, 04:10:33 »

Before i asked my first girl out i thought these certain things.

. Do we talk alot?

. Are we friends or good friends?

. How often do we argue?

. Is the right girl for me?

. Does she have a boyfriend already?

Answer these and then see for yourself.......... i asked her out and we still are together and are planning to stay this way for a long time

Follow your gut aswell and then your good.

Nebih · « **Reply #4 on:** 28 Jun 2012, 03:46:23 »

I found myself coming here lookin for advice

every time i ask a girl out she either has a boyfriend hates me or hates me. The one time i keppt a steady relationship my gf was to quick and wanted a little more. I dumped her now i find my self lonely but i like it.

Gdp203 · « **Reply #5 on:** 28 Jun 2012, 04:14:38 »

Dude.... dont feel bad, she made you uncomfortable and you wanted it steady. Dont beat yourself up for making the right choice that fit you

Nebih · « **Reply #6 on:** 11 Sep 2012, 02:44:58 »

But now I have a girlfriend that isn't my girlfriend yet but she will be come homecoming.

i love her and she loves me. I can't date until the monday before homecoming and she can't date until homecoming. So I will have some fun here. Our last home game (I'm talking about football here.) We exchanged numbers and in the past 3-4 days over 500 txts and been sent back and forth.

Thank you guys for the help with me atleast.

Jayjay36 · « **Reply #7 on:** 11 Sep 2012, 09:58:15 »

Or you can get your older sister to go ask her out because your a wimp!

(Not as if I've done this before.. oh no..)

buckieUK09 · « **Reply #8 on:** 11 Sep 2012, 10:28:34 »

It all depends on the type of person you are, if your popular at school, if your good looking, if she's popular, I could go on, there are lots of things you need to take into account.

As for me, it was very easy for me to get girls at school, I think it was mainly because of my guitar playing and I was also very popular at school. There were only a couple of times that I had to ask them out but mainly they came to me first.

Now as for the one's that I had to ask out, I just go up to them and ask, as my granddad said, "What is the worst she could say? Say no?".

The girl I am talking about, when I asked her she said no, but with a smile on her face, now that told me that she did actually like me(her face went all red also lol). She was a bit harder to get but I eventually got her.

Buddy, just go up to her, ask her, if she says no, she says no but you need to look out for the signs.

coolquote · « **Reply #9 on:** 11 Sep 2012, 14:41:46 »

Quote from: Miner_man123456 on 24 Jun 2012, 12:43:53

I have had this problem myself a couple of times and the best way to do it is just take your time and get to know her before asking her out, maybe invite her over to your house a couple of times to hang out like friends don't go up to a girl after you have spoken to her once or twice.

If she likes you back then you will most likely get a date but if she don't then you need to respect that and move on

Hope This Helped You A Little And Good Luck!

like he said. when u think that its time, bring all your courage and ask her out. and besides, its not like it could kill you or something. If she says no then move on.

Nebih · « **Reply #10 on:** 11 Sep 2012, 22:37:50 »

Quote from: coolquote on 11 Sep 2012, 14:41:46

Quote from: Miner_man123456 on 24 Jun 2012, 12:43:53
I have had this problem myself a couple of times and the best way to do it is just take your time and get to know her before asking her out, maybe invite her over to your house a couple of times to hang out like friends don't go up to a girl after you have spoken to her once or twice.

If she likes you back then you will most likely get a date but if she don't then you need to respect that and move on

Hope This Helped You A Little And Good Luck!
like he said. when u think that its time, bring all your courage and ask her out. and besides, its not like it could kill you or something. If she says no then move on.

Actually there is worse she could do. She could kick you in the balls and say no your too ugly and run off taking your wallet.

fish_james · « **Reply #11 on:** 11 Sep 2012, 23:18:05 »

I won't get as personal as some of you have on here, but my only tips are to not be nervous when around them and act like she is a person too, it helps a lot.

buckieUK09 · « **Reply #12 on:** 11 Sep 2012, 23:29:43 »

I enjoy giving out my personal status.

coolquote · « **Reply #13 on:** 12 Sep 2012, 00:25:29 »

Quote from: nebih on 11 Sep 2012, 22:37:50

Quote from: coolquote on 11 Sep 2012, 14:41:46
Quote from: Miner_man123456 on 24 Jun 2012, 12:43:53
I have had this problem myself a couple of times and the best way to do it is just take your time and get to know her before asking her out, maybe invite her over to your house a couple of times to hang out like friends don't go up to a girl after you have spoken to her once or twice.

If she likes you back then you will most likely get a date but if she don't then you need to respect that and move on

Hope This Helped You A Little And Good Luck!
like he said. when u think that its time, bring all your courage and ask her out. and besides, its not like it could kill you or something. If she says no then move on.
Actually there is worse she could do. She could kick you in the balls and say no your too ugly and run off taking your wallet.

do you seriously think that would happen? THAT WOULD NEVER HAPPEN. and if it does, DONT TRY TO GO OUT WITH HER

fish_james · « **Reply #14 on:** 12 Sep 2012, 00:29:49 »

Quote from: BuckieUK09 on 11 Sep 2012, 23:29:43

I enjoy giving out my personal status.

I just take it as bragging in public is all. But I'm not asking you to stop, please continue.

buckieUK09 · « **Reply #15 on:** 12 Sep 2012, 00:49:21 »

Here pal, I wasn't bragging, I have no need to brag, the guy was asking for advice so I gave him it. I have experience.

Plus I don't understand what you mean by bragging when I said, "I like giving out my personal status", some people like to share their past and present unlike some people that like to just lock it up and never bring it out.

Your past is your best teacher and it could also help a lot of other people along the way.

fish_james · « **Reply #16 on:** 12 Sep 2012, 01:56:56 »

I don't lock things up inside, that is a whole different story. Especially since its the internet.

And I wasn't referring to that post when I said that, nor did I say your name, pal.

Infinit3_D0nUts · « **Reply #17 on:** 12 Sep 2012, 20:05:43 »

I like and live by the old cliche' "If I only knew then what I know now".

Stuff to remember (these are based on my own opinions, but some of it is just plain ol' common sense):

1. Be yourself, don't pretend to be something you are not (yes you will hear this alot but it's VERY true).
2. Make her laugh.
3. Be considerate of her feelings at all times.
4. Listen to her (don't just nod, really listen to what she's saying).
5. Be respectful, always (goes with #3).
6. Girls do not care if you are nervous, they are too.
7. If you decide you want to ask her out, be open with her and just ask out right.
8. Remember the small things.
9. Get to know her friends too. They are just as important to her.

The list goes on forever (yes, I missed alot) and trust me, this is good advice.

Long_Cat · « **Reply #18 on:** 12 Sep 2012, 21:23:24 »

You don't even have to know the girl to ask her out on a date or for her number... I'm sure she'll be flattered anyway, even if she says no.

Infinit3_D0nUts · « **Reply #19 on:** 12 Sep 2012, 21:56:38 »

Quote from: Long_Cat on 12 Sep 2012, 21:23:24

You don't even have to know the girl to ask her out on a date or for her number... I'm sure she'll be flattered anyway, even if she says no.

This is true

fish_james · « **Reply #20 on:** 13 Sep 2012, 01:29:01 »

Quote from: AmicableJ on 12 Sep 2012, 20:05:43

I like and live by the old cliche' "If I only knew then what I know now".

Stuff to remember (these are based on my own opinions, but some of it is just plain ol' common sense):

1. Be yourself, don't pretend to be something you are not (yes you will hear this alot but it's VERY true).
2. Make her laugh.
3. Be considerate of her feelings at all times.
4. Listen to her (don't just nod, really listen to what she's saying).
5. Be respectful, always (goes with #3).
6. Girls do not care if you are nervous, they are too.
7. If you decide you want to ask her out, be open with her and just ask out right.
8. Remember the small things.
9. Get to know her friends too. They are just as important to her.

The list goes on forever (yes, I missed alot) and trust me, this is good advice.

This is probably your best bet, I think AmicableJ knows what he is talking about.

ben501 · « **Reply #21 on:** 28 Sep 2012, 01:51:40 »

Quote from: nebih on 11 Sep 2012, 22:37:50

Quote from: coolquote on 11 Sep 2012, 14:41:46
Quote from: Miner_man123456 on 24 Jun 2012, 12:43:53
I have had this problem myself a couple of times and the best way to do it is just take your time and get to know her before asking her out, maybe invite her over to your house a couple of times to hang out like friends don't go up to a girl after you have spoken to her once or twice.

If she likes you back then you will most likely get a date but if she don't then you need to respect that and move on

Hope This Helped You A Little And Good Luck!
like he said. when u think that its time, bring all your courage and ask her out. and besides, its not like it could kill you or something. If she says no then move on.
Actually there is worse she could do. She could kick you in the balls and say no your too ugly and run off taking your wallet.

Well it could happen if you are trying to date Texas from Red vs Blue

ben501 · « **Reply #22 on:** 28 Sep 2012, 01:59:23 »

you know, we men think that woman are different from us (they are in some ways) but the truth is that they have the same feelings as men (you know like being nervous and all that). the big differences is that sometimes they expect for the men to take the first steps in a relationship (like ask her out and stuff). so yes a lot of the suggestions posted here are dead on (from my point of view, it would be interesting if a girl takes a look at it...you to make sure)

Just remember why are you running? when you can walk?Just because you dont have a gf does not make you odd or anything of the sort, take it easy and enjoy your young years.

Take care!

MrLuettgen · « **Reply #23 on:** 28 Sep 2012, 03:15:22 »

Here is my response... DO IT. ONE FREEKING MILLON TIMES DO IT. If you don't you will end up spending the rest of your years at home, on your couch, playing minecraft and wondering what could have been, no wait, that's my life (forever alone)

UnlikelyPirate · « **Reply #24 on:** 28 Sep 2012, 09:52:33 »

Ok, all these things are fine and dandy, but consider the following as UnlikelyPirate's tips to obtaining a wench:

1) Don't call them wenches
2) Be confident in what you know and can do. Confidence is so very important in any relationship in life, not just dating.
3) Be yourself. If you are slob, ignore I said that. Personality wise, don't try and be someone you are not.
4) In school, your world is significantly smaller. If you get rejected, it wasn't meant to be, but its good practice for life when it matters more. After school, you have a whole city/state/country/world to look for another in. Don't be afraid of being alone until after you move out of your parents house.
5) Did I meantion confidence? Ok, here are the words to remember: confidence, truth, courage, mystery, and interestingness. Also, add the word potato. Don't ask questions, just do it.

There is truth in these words! I'm a real lady's man myself.