Your intentions are in the right place -- but you're going all about it in the worst way possible.
Remember, You'll catch more bees with honey than vinegar.

Everybody is here to have a good time -- Yes, we must abide by the rules set forth by those who run the servers. And these are terms we've all agreed to when we signed up. But when I log in to play the last thing I want to see is incessant bickering in my towns chat. It ruins the experience for me and other players.

You are not a mod -- you do not have the power to enforce the rules, I'm glad you want to help but this isn't the way to do it. Constantly nagging players who don't do as you say and threatening them with reporting them until they do as you demand is bullying, borderline harassment.

Kindly remind those who break the rules, by letting them know -- be diplomatic, they don't listen? Alert the mods, and go on with your own business. This keeps the peace.